Self-leadership with Compassion

Self-compassion for Business Leaders www.elementascoachig.com

Background

“Compassion involves the recognition of suffering, adds warm-heartedness to empathy and includes the move to reduce suffering if possible. Self-compassion is when we apply that attitude and feeling to ourselves”.

Dr Hanson (2023)

“… When we help ourselves and have a warm, accepting sense of ourselves, we are better able to have a warm and accepting appreciation of all those we lead, work with and encounter, therefore enabling us to show them compassion more easily” 

Professor West 2022

“men face a 37% higher risk of dying from cancer. When it comes to premature deaths from cardiovascular disease, 75% are among men. Four in five suicides are by men, with suicide the biggest cause of death for men under 50”


The Pilot

Two participants from a known business community were conveniently selected based on availability. They had prior coaching and mindfulness experience but no MSC experience. The research took place January – May 2023. The aim was to develop mindful self-compassion, with a focus on the potential impact (+/-) on leaders’ wellness and resilience. 

Methodology

To familiarise participants before the coaching sessions they completed an online self-compassion survey to learn about self-compassion. The survey is an empirical standard that reports on the three components of self-compassion and the opposites automatically. Although not part of the study data analysis, the quantitative data was discussed with participants. Survey link: https://self-compassion.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/03/SCS-State-information.pdf (accessed 01/03/23).

The Coaching Design

Findings

Nathan

Nathan
Chris

“… help you have some form of toolkit…. self-compassion will be about using some practical tools for me that will be supportive in work and home and everything else.”

Chris

“I wouldn’t be talking to you like this unless I trusted you”

“… saying things that are really close to you… a lot of this is… about… work and personal, so, has it all been easy no, but has it been surprisingly, fairly easy? Yeah… know each other a bit … that trust’s there, which goes a long way.” 

“… person is challenged appropriately… that’s important, made to feel safe and, trust for the person I think that that’s critical.”

“Able to have a connection and understanding… a wanting to understand and help people.”

“Compassionate and empathic… Understand that best leaders are struggling in some way… even if people appear confident…

Comfortable with themself. Very self-aware and comfortable.

Good at listening. A good communicator. Encouraging me. Able to ask the right questions.… to draw out…. what I found when you ask the additional questions…… it just helps me; it’s simplified… helping me understand.”

“Keep emphasising the humaneness… person picking up and running with some of these concepts and helping.” 

“… and your own practice and supporting yourself… working in ways to empower and enhance your life.” 

”… there’s no golden key… about getting you to open up to help yourself…

Nathan and Chris

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